Drifting Away

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Do you ever feel like your life is out of control? Like you are drowning in details? Like you are never going to get your life together? It does not have to be that way. You can take some simple steps now to get on top of things and stay there.

In my opinion, the major reason why successful people always seem so "together" is they set specific written goals with realistic deadlines. This sends a message to their subconscious mind to automatically sort through the confusing detail of life and only notice that which advances them toward their objectives. Since they know what they want and when they want it, they don't have to agonize over every decision. This one habit simplifies their life and makes them seem so much more organized.

But just having goals is not enough. You have got to use your brain effectively. You have got to get your mind uncluttered.

Did you know that your conscious mind cannot effectively juggle more than five to ten thoughts at a time? If you do not want to feel overwhelmed, write down all the things you have to do. You will be surprised how much less confusing t is once you get the list down on paper. Most people call this a "to-do list". But, don't stop there.

You must prioritize your activities or you will fall into the trap of confusing activity with progress. Being busy often gives one the illusion that things are getting done. What usually happens is that the easy, enjoyable tasks get done while the difficult, unenjoyable and often important tasks get transferred from list to list. But when you prioritize and work first on your top priorities you move from the level of "getting things done" to a new level called "getting the right things done". And that is a quantum leap. Only then can you afford the luxury of working on less important matters.

And last, remember that whatever gets measured improves. Get in the habit or reviewing your progress on a regular basis.

How can you see if progress is being made unless you track it? Take time to look back and see how far you have cone. Perhaps you should even record your insights and experiences in a daily journal for review on a regular basis.

This simple approach won't work immediate miracles but with a few weeks practice, you will notice you are becoming more serene, calm and organized in a world that thrives on confusion and chaos.

Taken from "The Challenge" by Robert G. Allen.

kAkA.hUnTeR

Forging Ahead.

spoke at : 3/20/2008 05:04:00 PM

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