Monday, December 08, 2008
Here’s an interesting post to share with u guys..
I looked up this word the other day in the dictionary. It basically says that it is someone you are fond of and enjoy talking with them. I value friendship to the highest level. I am seriously make it appoint to hang out with my friends at least once every two weeks. Of course, not all yet. But I am trying now.
So what happens when you are the better friend? When you are the one that is always calling or inviting and that person just blows you off. Deep down you may be thinking that there is something wrong with you. Well, nothing is wrong with you. Everyone becomes caught up in their life. I do not take it personally and you shouldn’t either.
Ask yourself these 5 little questions.
1. Are you the one that always calls?
2. Do you leave comments on their sites and they never comment back?
3. Do they only talk to you when they need something?
4. Have they stood you up when you had plans?
5. Do they owe you money?
If you answered yes to 3 of these questions I am sorry to say but they are not your friend. Personally I think that they are just keeping you at arms distance just in case. They may need something from you or they just don’t know how to be a friend. Please do not point out their faults after all you are the better friend.
kAkA.hUnTeR
The problems in life come when we are sowing one thing and expecting to reap something entirely different.
spoke at : 12/08/2008 11:11:00 PM